I'm single! *insert joyous laughter*

Right now it seems like our days  (women late Twenties and up that is) are filled with bachelorette parties, weddings, and of course the baby showers. Most of us are not running towards having our OWN baby showers HOWEVER I think deep down every woman wants to be married eventually even if eventually comes at 35 or even 40. So for now let's just enjoy being single. Embrace it instead of dwelling on it. Work on you inside and out. Go to the gym. Work on your relationship with God. Build better relationships with family and friends. Don't set limits on marriage or babies. If you hit that age you will be upset. That makes for a depressing birthday lol Focus on choosing the right man instead of Mr. Right now. It'll save you a lot of needless frustration and heartache. Most importantly (and the most fun) be with the ones you love. Enjoy the spending time with your friends. Go get a mani/pedi. Have a dinner date. Go enjoy a Lemon Drop! Go shoe shopping. Men don't want to spend 2 hours in Aldo going back and forth between a black sling back peep toe shoe and a black sling back almond toe shoe. Heck do they know the difference? Even still I bet your bestie would know the difference and be ready to mule over how each would look with that LBD you just purchased at Macys. Don't forget your love of all things reality! Bad Girls Club, Jersey Shore, Teen Mom 2, remember those shows? Your new beau won't be interested in that and who really wants to share the remote? Let's be honest! So get pretty and head over to your favorite lounge (I prefer Plush in West Loop for their Pineapple Upside Down Cake martini)  with your girls. Focus on you and have fun until your knight in shining armor comes galloping up on his white horse or drives up in his BMW. Whatever tickles your fancy!